East Bay Couples Counselors

Our East Bay marriage and couples counselors are experienced Marriage and Family Therapists who specialize in working with couples. They are dedicated to helping you create the relationship you want!
Liron Cohen, couples therapist in Berkeley
Liron Cohen, MFTi

Being in a relationship means sharing yourself with another person. It means connecting with your partner, opening your heart, and loving. And that’s not always an easy thing to do. Liron teaches couples how to communicate in a healthy and productive way. She helps partners learn to de-escalate fights and eventually recognize and prevent them before they even begin. That way couples can go to sleep in each other’s arms instead of feeling angry and unheard.

Liron believes that counseling sessions should continue at home, which is why she assigns her clients videos and articles to ensure they get the most out of couples counseling. Alongside Hakomi, Liron is a priestess in the 13 Moon Mystery School, has worked as a doula in the art of pregnancy and birth, and has studied shamanism and its connections to plants.

Liron holds a Master’s degree in counseling from the California Institute of Integral Studies, specializing in Somatic Psychotherapy. Her approach is integral, combining mindfulness, spirituality, and the mind-body relationship. Liron is a Marriage and Family Therapist Intern supervised by Nani Vohryzek, MFT #33955.

Office Location

1918 Bonita Ave., second floor (Suite 203)
Berkeley CA 94707

Louis Bernstein, couples therapist in Oakland
Louis Bernstein, MFT

Your intimate relationship can be one of the most important sources of joy, satisfaction, and fulfillment in your life. However, issues may arise which upset that original harmony, and if left unaddressed, lead to a negative pattern of quarreling, difficult communication, and a loss of connection, trust, and intimacy.

Drawing from the fields of Transpersonal and Somatic therapies, Louis will assist you through experiential exploration and practices to help you identify, address, and resolve those challenging issues.

Louis offers you a safe, compassionate, and non-judgmental space where the two of you can heal old wounds. A place to learn new ways of communication and relating so as to be truly heard and understood by your partner. Through a collaborative and mindful process, Louis will assist you in co-creating a renewed connection, trust, and intimacy with one another.

As a couples counselor for 10 years, Louis draws upon a variety of counseling approaches and modalities as best suited to meet the needs of each unique couple. These including processes from Imago Therapy (“Getting the Love you Want” by Harville Hendrix), John Gottman’s Relationship Institute, and experiential practices from the Transpersonal and Somatic therapies and the Expressive Arts.

Louis is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and holds a master’s degree in counseling psychology from John F. Kennedy University. Louis has additional training in Hypnotherapy, Mindfulness, EMDR and the Expressive Arts.

Office Location

5655 College Avenue., Suite 316-B
Oakland, CA 94618

Danielle Saunders, couples therapist in Berkeley
Danielle Saunders, MFT

Danielle brings over 14 years of experience to couples counseling. Her unique approach incorporates communication skills and relational-somatic and mindfulness-based techniques. Danielle sees couples with a large range of issues, including reclaiming sexual passion, coparenting/blended families, and recovery from trauma/history of abuse. She is both practical and creative in finding solutions to remaining present with and growing into healthy love relationships. She believes love is our best teacher and our relationships can be a place for working through key issues through building safety, depth and authenticity. With this foundation, a couple can support each other into greater aspects of themselves to take risks, expand in receiving love, and meeting new life goals.

In addition to being a Marriage and Family Therapist, Danielle writes extensively about living an authentic life, taking risks to let in more love, and the humble experience of being truly human. Her master’s degree comes from California Institute of Integral Studies and she has years of postgraduate training in spirituality, somatic experiential therapy, attachment therapy, and solution-focused family therapy.

Office Location

3345 Grand Ave., Suite 1
Oakland, CA 94610

Raia Kogan, couples therapist in San Francisco
Raia Kogan, MFT

Falling in love is one of the most profound experiences of an adult life. Grounding this incredible wave of emotions and experiences into a sustainable and secure relationship with lasting emotional intimacy and sexual passion is a challenge for many couples. Old wounds and traumas can emerge alongside deepening connection and vulnerability. Having a skilled therapist at any stage of a relationship can make a huge difference. Raia believes that a deeply nourishing and satisfying relationship is possible even when there has been past wounding and trauma and feels continually honored to share in and support deeply intimate and tender moments with the couples she serves.

Working together, you will enter a supportive container where she will remind and guide you to slow down, breathe, reconnect with your body, and connect with your deepest desires and longings. You will learn tools to communicate with each other in a more intimate way, to listen to and speak from your heart, and also to receive your partner more fully.

Raia has been working with individuals and couples for 8 years and has completed several advanced trainings in couples therapy, attachment theory, neuroscience, somatics, trauma, and sexuality. She enjoys blending the art and science of psychotherapy, studying evidence-based approaches, and also honoring the deep mystery of the human heart and mind. Her work is informed by two decades of personal practice of yoga and meditation as well as many years of teaching. Raia is experienced in working with diverse couples including LQBTQI, monogamous, and polyamorous couples.

Office Location

3945 Opal Street
Oakland, CA 94609

Sergio Rodriguez-Castillo, couples therapist in San Francisco
Sergio Rodriguez-Castillo, MFTi

Yes, there is hope. Although it may be hard for you to believe it right now, I have witnessed how couples can work through difficult crises. The end of the honeymoon does not mean the beginning of the end. With commitment and support, fights, lies, and silences can be turned into supportive conversations. Your relationship can become the safe haven you hoped for, a supportive environment where love and growth can take place. You can learn to be in relationship.

Sergio is a bilingual (Spanish) and bicultural psychotherapist with more than 20 years of experience as a therapist, consultant, and coach specialized in diverse couples with mixed backgrounds (nationality, race, religion, age, culture, styles, points of view…) working with them to disentangle personal, existential, relational and family crises. He helps clients with communication issues, infidelity, lack of sexual desire, anger, mixed agendas, money quarrels and problems with children and in-laws; supporting them to get more out of life and their relationship. His work includes all dimensions: body, mind, spirit, heart, and culture, in the context of nature and community.

Sergio is not only a psychotherapist but a trainer of psychotherapists, teaching couples counseling at the California Institute of Integral Studies, holding MAs in Integral Psychotherapy and Comparative Psychology from CIIS in California, an LLM from Warwick University in the UK, a JD from the UAQ in Mexico, and Psycho-Spirituality Studies from the Sadhana Institute in India.

Office Location

1918 Bonita Ave., second floor (Suite 203)
Berkeley CA 94707


Office Location

1918 Bonita Ave., second floor (Suite 203)
Berkeley CA 94707

Taneille Smith, MFT, Berkeley couples counselor
Taneille Smith, MFT

Taneille knows firsthand how challenging it can be for a couple to reach out and seek help from a counselor. Having been in couples therapy herself, she can empathize with what it’s like to be sitting in “the hot seat.” To reveal what goes on behind closed doors can feel scary, but the benefits of this kind of vulnerability are tremendous. When a couple risks this kind of vulnerability, the payoff can be so much more than they had imagined.

Taneille sees conflicts within couples as openings and opportunities. If you can listen just below the surface, a couples conflict is often a longing for connection; thus, conflict is an opportunity to deepen connection—it’s a couples doorway should they chose to enter it. A lot of couples view conflict as a problem and try to avoid it because it’s threatening in some way. Taneille understands how tremendously powerful it can be to have the help of a skilled professional in revealing the opportunities and openings behind the conflict.

At the core of Taneille’s work is truth and authenticity. This translates into a very down-to-earth style that welcomes all dimensions of human experience. A Hakomi-trained therapist, she believes that the most lasting change comes through offering couples new experiences, rather than explanations. She is also heavily influenced by Buddhist and nondual teachings that she infuses in a practical way into her work with couples. Her greatest teachers have been her family, her husband, and her daughter.

Office Location

The Market Hall Building
5655 College Avenue, Ste. 316A
Oakland, CA 94618

Eitan Saenger, MFTi, Berkeley couples counselor
Eitan Saenger, MFTi

Eitan is passionate about intimate relationships. He has a warm, interactive, and effective counseling style. He offers practical tools to deal with the challenges that committed relationships often present. With an empathic approach, he works toward creating a safe environment that supports each partner to communicate authentically. Eitan aims to help couples negotiate resolutions that are mutually satisfying where no one “gives up” or “gives in” to the other, but rather, finds their own unique balance between intimate connection and autonomous self-expression. Working experientially, Eitan helps couples become more aware of their limiting patterns, guiding them in creating new, more satisfying ways of interacting.

Eitan has a master’s degree in Somatic Psychotherapy from California Institute of Integral Studies. He has completed trainings in both the Comprehensive Hakomi Body Centered Psychotherapy Method and Psychophysical Therapy for Couples. Eitan resides in the East Bay with his wife and his son.

Office Location

1918 Bonita Ave., second floor (Suite 203)
Berkeley CA 94707

Io Bones, MFTi, couples counselor in San Francisco
Io Bones, MFTi

Our partner’s often seem to have a knack for triggering our most tender and vulnerable wounds. This is what makes arguing with our partners so potentially painful, but it also means that our relationships offer us a profound opportunity for developing more empowerment, security, and connectedness. Io works with couples to help them take advantage of their challenges as opportunities to come into deeper contact with each other, and also themselves.

Io brings to her work both a deep hearted warmth and a willingness to be direct. She helps couples slow arguments down so that they can understand what starts them and keeps them going, and she helps them find concrete tools for stopping fights and staying connected.

Some of the couples who work with Io come because they want help transforming conflict into connection, others are experiencing a major transition, such as getting married, having kids, or opening their relationship, and want help doing it in a way that brings them closer. She welcomes clients who are monogamous, non-monogamous, straight, gay, vanilla, kinky, and everywhere in between or off the spectrum all together.

Io holds a masters in Somatic Psychotherapy from the California Institute for Integral Studies and has completed several years of study with the Hakomi Institute, a mindfulness-based modality that draws on somatic and Buddhist philosophies. She has also worked as a birth doula, inquiry-based learning specialist, and movement educator.

Office Location

5464-C College Ave.,
Oakland, CA 94168